Intercultural communcation
My close friends in junior college class were, like myself, from secondary schools made up of Chinese student population. As such, we were oblivious to ethnic culture differences.
During a lunch break, we were sitting at our class bench, complaining about the long time table on Friday with a 4 hours break in between lessons. All of us felt that it is a waste of time to have such a long break and would rather shorten the break so that we could be dismissed earlier. At this point in time, I noticed that Haikal, our Malay classmate who was also sitting at the class bench was staring at us, looking displeased.
On another occasion, my clique was making our way to the canteen for lunch and we met Haikal. Out of goodwill and courtesy, I asked Haikal if he would like to join us for lunch. He turned down my invitation coldly and walked away.
We could not understand why he was so aloof then until James, our class chairperson who overheard our conversation, reminded me that it was the fasting month so it is impolite to ask Haikal for lunch. He also explained that Haikal needs to go to the mosque for his prayers on Friday which is why we have a long break between lessons.
James’ words made me realize how ignorant and insensitive I had been towards other ethnic cultures. Through this incident, I learnt to appreciate the importance of recognizing and showing respect for cultural differences which is essential for anyone living in multiracial society like Singapore.
During a lunch break, we were sitting at our class bench, complaining about the long time table on Friday with a 4 hours break in between lessons. All of us felt that it is a waste of time to have such a long break and would rather shorten the break so that we could be dismissed earlier. At this point in time, I noticed that Haikal, our Malay classmate who was also sitting at the class bench was staring at us, looking displeased.
On another occasion, my clique was making our way to the canteen for lunch and we met Haikal. Out of goodwill and courtesy, I asked Haikal if he would like to join us for lunch. He turned down my invitation coldly and walked away.
We could not understand why he was so aloof then until James, our class chairperson who overheard our conversation, reminded me that it was the fasting month so it is impolite to ask Haikal for lunch. He also explained that Haikal needs to go to the mosque for his prayers on Friday which is why we have a long break between lessons.
James’ words made me realize how ignorant and insensitive I had been towards other ethnic cultures. Through this incident, I learnt to appreciate the importance of recognizing and showing respect for cultural differences which is essential for anyone living in multiracial society like Singapore.